Rounded Rectangle: ★　Being Your Mate's Best Friend・・・　★ Is your mate your best friend? I hope so. Friendship is an important ingredient in marriage. Being best friends is the greatest indicator of a successful long-term marriage. For me my husband is my best friend that I ever had in this world. He the most understand about me and always support me in every part of my life. He was my everything that no endless. Friendship / marriage means trusting,no pretending, believing in and supporting one another. Do you trust each other? Do you call to let your husband or wife know when you're going to be late? Does your spouse know you believe in him or her? Have you given your husband or wife a compliment in the last 24 hours? Do you support each other? Maybe it's your time to do the dishes, take out the trash, or answer the voice mail. Friendship requires time, and in order to grow, it must be cultivated. That is basic thing before and after my marriage.More harder for me is culture because my hubby is Japanese and I am Malaysian. It totally different culture and language.As you spend time together, you'll become even better friends. There is nothing more relaxing than to feel completely comfortable with another person. Wherever you are, you can start today cultivating a deeper friendship with your spouse. If I can do, you can do. Believe yourself.... Give your comment here